👰 Bride — Morning Checklist
- Eat a real breakfast (not just coffee — you'll thank yourself at 8 PM)
- Drink one full glass of water before hair & makeup
- Rings, vows, and something borrowed/blue/bold packed
- Phone on Do Not Disturb — give it to your MOH
- Emergency kit bag handed to MOH
- Vendor payment envelopes given to coordinator (not you!)
- Final venue walkthrough items confirmed with coordinator
- Take 5 quiet minutes alone before getting dressed
- Perfume, lipstick for touch-ups in your clutch
- Breathe. It's going to be wonderful.
💐 Maid of Honor — Day-Of Duties
- Hold the bride's phone (DND on) and emergency kit all day
- Keep the timeline — give 10-minute warnings before each transition
- Make sure the bride eats and drinks water
- Hold the bouquet during vows; fluff the dress before photos
- Have tissues ready (for happy tears — yours and hers)
- Collect cards, gifts, and the guest book at end of night
- Confirm the getaway car / transport is ready before the send-off
- Text the couple the next morning — not tonight, let them rest
📋 Coordinator / Point Person
- Vendor contact sheet + timeline in hand (printed, not just phone)
- Confirm each vendor arrival as the day progresses
- Distribute final payment envelopes at the agreed times
- Cue the wedding party for entrances, dances, toasts, tosses
- Handle any vendor issue — the couple should never hear about problems
- Designate gift/card collection person and rental return person
- Final venue sweep: nothing left behind (check bridal suite twice)
🆘 Emergency Kit — Packing List
The famous one. Pack this in a tote the night before and hand it to your MOH. Future you says thanks.
Fix-Its
- Mini sewing kit + safety pins
- Fashion tape / double-sided tape
- Stain remover pen
- Clear nail polish (runs in tights)
- Superglue (broken heels, jewelry)
- Scissors
Feel-Goods
- Pain reliever + antacid
- Band-aids + blister pads
- Deodorant wipes
- Mints / gum
- Granola bars + water bottles
- Tissues
Touch-Ups
- Lipstick + powder
- Bobby pins + hair ties
- Hairspray (travel size)
- Perfume rollerball
- Makeup remover wipes
Just-In-Case
- Phone charger + battery pack
- Cash (tips, emergencies)
- Umbrella (clear dome ones photograph best)
- Comfy backup shoes
- Copy of vows (printed!)